A Bridge Too Far
Meaning
“A bridge too far” describes something that is beyond what is reasonable, achievable, or acceptable, especially when someone has already pushed themselves or a situation quite far.
The expression comes from the idea of trying to reach a bridge that is simply too distant to capture or cross. It became widely known through the title of the 1977 film A Bridge Too Far, which depicted a military operation that attempted to go beyond what could realistically be achieved.
Today, it is used when an additional demand, goal, or action would simply be too much.
Usage
The phrase is often used when someone has achieved a lot but is considering one more step that seems unrealistic or excessive. It can apply to business plans, personal goals, negotiations, relationships, and everyday decisions.
It is usually phrased as “that’s a bridge too far” or “going that far would be a bridge too far.” The tone is generally cautious rather than harsh.
Example Sentences
- Winning the tournament was possible, but expecting us to win every match would be a bridge too far.
- I can forgive the mistake, but asking me to pay for the damage is a bridge too far.
- The company has doubled its sales this year, but tripling them next month would be a bridge too far.
- We agreed to work late tonight, but coming in all weekend would be a bridge too far.
- She was willing to compromise, but giving up her entire vacation was a bridge too far.