Fishing for Compliments
Meaning
“Fishing for compliments” is an idiom used when someone deliberately says or does something that encourages other people to praise them. Rather than asking directly for a compliment, they make a comment that gives others an opening to say something nice about them.
For example, someone might say, “I look terrible in this dress,” when they actually expect their friend to respond, “Are you kidding? You look amazing!” In that situation, the person is fishing for compliments.
The expression often carries a playful or slightly teasing tone. It suggests that the person already knows—or at least hopes—that there is something positive to be said about them. Depending on the situation, it can be harmless and humorous, but it can also imply that someone is seeking attention or reassurance.
Usage
“Fishing for compliments” is most commonly used in casual conversations. You can use it when teasing a friend, family member, colleague, or partner who seems to be trying to get praise without openly asking for it.
It can be used as a verb phrase: “She’s fishing for compliments.” You can also describe someone’s comment as an attempt to fish for compliments: “I think you’re just fishing for compliments.”
The phrase is usually lighthearted, but the tone matters. Saying it with a smile can be a friendly joke, while saying it sharply can suggest that you think the other person is being attention-seeking or insincere.
Example Sentences
- “You know you look great, so stop fishing for compliments.”
- “When Sarah said her new haircut looked terrible, I knew she was fishing for compliments.”
- “Are you fishing for compliments, or do you really think this outfit looks bad?”
- “He posted a picture of his new car and said it was nothing special—he was clearly fishing for compliments.”
- “I’m not fishing for compliments; I genuinely want to know whether you think my presentation was good.”